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	<description>How marketing really works.</description>
	<pubDate>Mon, 22 Jun 2009 06:01:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>What a fantastic book&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://www.becomingessential.com/2009/05/13/what-a-fantastic-book/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 13 May 2009 16:07:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ted Pearlman</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m only about 2/3s of the way through, but Setting the Table by Danny Meyer is a book that every business person would benefit by reading. It lays out clearly why your hospitality is more important than your tangible product. They&#8217;re both crucial. But people tend to really lapse when it comes to hospitality.


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m only about 2/3s of the way through, but <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Setting-Table-Transforming-Hospitality-Business/dp/0060742763/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1242229826&amp;sr=1-1" onclick="javascript:pageTracker._trackPageview('/outbound/article/www.amazon.com');">Setting the Table</a> by Danny Meyer is a book that every business person would benefit by reading. It lays out clearly why your hospitality is more important than your tangible product. They&#8217;re both crucial. But people tend to really lapse when it comes to hospitality.</p>
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<img src="http://www.becomingessential.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/05/danny-meyer.jpg" width="315" height="480" alt="Danny Meyer" /></p>
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		<title>Have a Coke and a Frown</title>
		<link>http://www.becomingessential.com/2009/04/26/have-a-coke-and-a-frown/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Apr 2009 03:24:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ted Pearlman</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[I judge whether a company brings real value to people by whether they do the most important step of marketing. That&#8217;s inventing a product that has real, highly differentiated value.
Products like Coke don&#8217;t have real, highly differentiated value. Coke is a commodity, dressed up as something special.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I judge whether a company brings real value to people by whether they do the most important step of marketing. That&#8217;s inventing a <em>product</em> that has real, highly differentiated value.</p>
<p>Products like Coke don&#8217;t have real, highly differentiated value. Coke is a commodity, dressed up as something special.</p>
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		<title>OMG&#8230;this is hysterical</title>
		<link>http://www.becomingessential.com/2009/04/23/omgthis-is-hysterical/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Apr 2009 09:14:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ted Pearlman</dc:creator>
		
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		<title>Here&#8217;s a company that understands marketing&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://www.becomingessential.com/2009/02/22/heres-a-company-that-understands-marketing/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Feb 2009 07:10:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ted Pearlman</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[LessEverything is a Ruby on Rails Development company that understands marketing. And, you can see from their site, they do great work, which is, as Allan says in this blog post, great marketing.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>LessEverything is a Ruby on Rails Development company that understands marketing. And, you can see from their site, they do great work, which is, as Allan says in <a href="http://b.lesseverything.com/2009/2/10/great-marketing-is-about-patience-and-creativity" onclick="javascript:pageTracker._trackPageview('/outbound/article/b.lesseverything.com');">this blog post</a>, great marketing.</p>
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		<title>Next Roundtable</title>
		<link>http://www.becomingessential.com/2009/02/09/next-roundtable/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Feb 2009 08:48:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ted Pearlman</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[Some of you have asked when our next web marketing roundtable is with slots available. My friends Mike Belasco from seOverflow and Jon Clark from Aten Design Group and I have a few openings for our event on May 14th. If you&#8217;d like to attend, just leave a comment here and I&#8217;ll get back to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Some of you have asked when our next web marketing roundtable is with slots available. My friends Mike Belasco from <a href="http://www.seoverflow.com" onclick="javascript:pageTracker._trackPageview('/outbound/article/www.seoverflow.com');">seOverflow</a> and Jon Clark from <a href="http://www.atendesigngroup.com" onclick="javascript:pageTracker._trackPageview('/outbound/article/www.atendesigngroup.com');">Aten Design Group</a> and I have a few openings for our event on May 14th. If you&#8217;d like to attend, just leave a comment here and I&#8217;ll get back to you&#8230;</p>
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		<title>Update to Nigel&#8217;s Site</title>
		<link>http://www.becomingessential.com/2009/01/12/update-to-nigels-site/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Jan 2009 14:24:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ted Pearlman</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[Update to Nigel&#8217;s website&#8230;and brand&#8230;


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Update to Nigel&#8217;s website&#8230;and brand&#8230;</p>
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<a href="http://www.gettingtohighstreet.com/" onclick="javascript:pageTracker._trackPageview('/outbound/article/www.gettingtohighstreet.com');"><img src="http://www.becomingessential.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/12/CEA.jpg" width="500" alt="Coaching EA" /></a></p>
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		<title>Recent Website</title>
		<link>http://www.becomingessential.com/2008/12/06/recent-website/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Dec 2008 10:53:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ted Pearlman</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[Nigel Clayton is the best business coach there is, period.
I just did a new website for him that tries to capture the essence of who he is, what he does, and, most importantly, how it helps.


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nigel Clayton is the best business coach there is, period.</p>
<p>I just did a new website for him that tries to capture the essence of who he is, what he does, and, most importantly, how it helps.</p>
<p>
<a href="http://www.gettingtohighstreet.com/" onclick="javascript:pageTracker._trackPageview('/outbound/article/www.gettingtohighstreet.com');"><img src="http://www.becomingessential.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/12/getting-to-high-street.jpg" width="500" alt="Getting to High Street.jpg" /></a></p>
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		<title>David Allen&#8217;s &#8220;Getting Things Done&#8221; in a Few Sentences</title>
		<link>http://www.becomingessential.com/2008/12/06/david-allens-getting-things-done-in-a-few-sentences/</link>
		<comments>http://www.becomingessential.com/2008/12/06/david-allens-getting-things-done-in-a-few-sentences/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Dec 2008 10:34:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ted Pearlman</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m a devout follower of David Allen&#8217;s Getting Things Done, as are many. The book is 267 pages long. That&#8217;s about 266 and a 1/2 too many.
Here&#8217;s the whole thing:
Don&#8217;t keep track of anything in your head.
For example, when you speak to a client and need to follow up in a week, don&#8217;t try to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m a devout follower of David Allen&#8217;s <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Getting-Things-Done-Stress-Free-Productivity/dp/0142000280/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1228559062&amp;sr=8-1" onclick="javascript:pageTracker._trackPageview('/outbound/article/www.amazon.com');">Getting Things Done</a>, as are many. The book is 267 pages long. That&#8217;s about 266 and a 1/2 too many.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s the whole thing:</p>
<p><strong>Don&#8217;t keep track of anything in your head.</strong></p>
<p>For example, when you speak to a client and need to follow up in a week, don&#8217;t try to <em>remember</em> to follow up. You need to create a reminder for a specific time a week later and put it into a system that INTERRUPTS you. Putting the reminder in a day-timer that you don&#8217;t examine at least several times per day won&#8217;t work. Instead, put the reminder in your PDA, your laptop calendar, or a computer program that waves its arms in front of you via email, SMS, etc. I recommend two options:</p>
<p>If you are a PC user or web-centric: <a href="http://www.rememberthemilk.com" onclick="javascript:pageTracker._trackPageview('/outbound/article/www.rememberthemilk.com');">Remember the Milk</a></p>
<p>If you are a Mac user: <a href="http://www.omnigroup.com/applications/omnifocus/" onclick="javascript:pageTracker._trackPageview('/outbound/article/www.omnigroup.com');">OmniFocus</a></p>
<p>Now, go out and read 266 and a 1/2 pages of something frivolous.</p>
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		<title>Don&#8217;t Be a Price Shopper</title>
		<link>http://www.becomingessential.com/2008/12/06/dont-be-a-price-shopper/</link>
		<comments>http://www.becomingessential.com/2008/12/06/dont-be-a-price-shopper/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Dec 2008 10:21:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ted Pearlman</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[I designed a quick website for a friend recently. She&#8217;s a great gal, but a devout price shopper. The short term cost of the thing is what&#8217;s important to her. She doesn&#8217;t think of spending money as an investment; she thinks of it as a drain.
Price shopping is a disease that will lead you to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I designed a quick website for a friend recently. She&#8217;s a great gal, but a devout price shopper. The short term cost of the thing is what&#8217;s important to her. She doesn&#8217;t think of spending money as an investment; she thinks of it as a drain.</p>
<p>Price shopping is a disease that will lead you to ruin: don&#8217;t do it. I&#8217;m not talking about seeing if you can find a $1200 designer suit for $200. I&#8217;m talking about budgeting $200 for a suit and then going out and buying one that lists for $200 <em>retail</em>. If you are hard up, don&#8217;t buy a $200 suit. Figure out what type of clothing ensemble you can wear that&#8217;s well-made, elegant and that meets your budget. Maybe it&#8217;s a simple pair of slacks and a really nice sweater.</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t be a price shopper.</p>
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		<title>Every Company Has 2 Product Lines</title>
		<link>http://www.becomingessential.com/2008/09/07/every-company-has-2-product-lines/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Sep 2008 15:56:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ted Pearlman</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[If your marketing efforts are to impact sales, you must understand this: every company has two product lines.
The first product line is the ACTUAL product: If you are a ski retailer, it&#8217;s a pair of skis. If you are a dentist, it&#8217;s a root canal. If you are a web designer, it&#8217;s a website.
The second [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If your marketing efforts are to impact sales, you must understand this: every company has two product lines.</p>
<p>The first product line is the ACTUAL product: If you are a ski retailer, it&#8217;s a pair of skis. If you are a dentist, it&#8217;s a root canal. If you are a web designer, it&#8217;s a website.</p>
<p>The second product line is how you TREAT your customer before, during, and after the transaction.</p>
<p>If you are a ski retailer, it&#8217;s:</p>
<ul>
<li>the speed with which the customer is able to make their purchase</li>
<li>the ability of your salespeople to match customers with the best pair of skis</li>
<li>the flexibility of the return policy</li>
</ul>
<p>If you are a dentist, it&#8217;s:</p>
<ul>
<li>your patient&#8217;s physical comfort during the root canal</li>
<li>how the patient is put at ease by the environment of the dentist&#8217;s office</li>
<li>how clearly you explain what a root canal is, why the patient needs it, and what they will feel like the next day</li>
</ul>
<p>If you are a web designer, it&#8217;s:</p>
<ul>
<li>how quickly you can deliver the design</li>
<li>how you are able to satisfy client whims and still produce an outstanding site</li>
<li>what kind of help you are to the client, after deployment</li>
</ul>
<p>It is especially crucial to remember this fact if your ACTUAL product can&#8217;t realistically be differentiated from the product of the competition. If you are a coffee shop or a consumer electronics store or a lawn care company, there&#8217;s a limit to how much you can differentiate your ACTUAL products. There&#8217;s a limit to how easily you can differentiate the taste of the coffee, your selection of TV&#8217;s and stereos, and the greenness of your lawns.</p>
<p>That means, you&#8217;ve got to concentrate on how you TREAT your customers.</p>
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